Men always ask me, what do women look for in a man? They treat attraction as a universal thing, as if all the women of the world all want the same thing on a menu of men. I’ll have the tall, dark, and handsome with nice job on the side. Also, I’ll have some extra money sprinkled on the top.
Cheating brings all of the relationship problems to the surface. You’ll either have to resolve your issues with each other or make the decision to break up. Anything else is purgatory.
Here’s how to tell if a cheater is worth forgiving:
There’s been a lot of talk lately about open relationships and polyamorous relationships. People want to know if these sort of relationships actually work. How do you not implode with jealousy when your partner is off frolicking with someone else? This is a huge fear that a lot of us live with everyday no matter our relationship status.
I just had a conversation about Mr. Potato Head– AKA my dream man– with my girlfriends while rubbing ourselves in mud in Calistoga. We were reminiscing about the many men we have dated over the years and how we wish we cut and paste them together to make one man…
10 years and still going strong. Who knew I’d spend so many wonderful years with you? Your electrifying love gives me strength in times of weakness, passion in times of extreme boredom, and showers of orgasms in the worst dry spells you could imagine…
Should you date a divorced man? I get this question all the time. People are concerned that the guy is going to have too much baggage.
Well, if he’s been on this planet long enough he’s going to have some baggage anyway and it might not just be because of his bitter divorce…
How do you get your partner to try new sex positions? People email me this question all the time.
Well, the first thing you have to do is ask her. Communication is a lubrication and couples who actually talk about sex have better sex. It’s a fact.
The number one complaint I hear from men is that their partner does not initiate sex enough.
Women are taught from a young age not to take the lead. Never pay for a date, open the door for yourself, call a man first, or initiate sex first.
Have you had those experiences—in your adulthood—when you’ve felt like you were having High School sex all over again? Guy gropes breasts for two minutes, sticks his hand down pants for three-and-a-half, and next thing you know, you’re doing it (clothes on floor, panties at your ankles, etc).
Recently, Glamour Magazine asked me about my “Dating DOs & DON’Ts” – also featured are tips by Amy Laurent and Julia Allison from Miss Advised. So tell me this, what are yours? Read my tips below.
